sometimes its is easier to say something from your side point of view because you dont know what the other person is thinking especially in a relationship like mine. even when she asked about the post she wrote about the best relationship, when she thinks when we are friends that know each other is in love but stay as friends and act as lover when needed. I'm 80% dont like it but 20% ok with it. 80% because I dont mind waiting but if I walk away, and she turns around to point finger, I will seriously fire back. That kind of relationship is fine for a few months, to test the water out but at the same time, both parties need to evaluate and consider each other feelings. 20% is because I kinda like the freedom that if I dont talk to her, its ok.

in the end, I'm the kinda of guy I dont like to keep a person waiting. if not ready, I would just say become friends. But I wont hesitate to walk away when I feel that I'm being taken advantage of.

Even if I made a promise that I will stay. The moment I feel that the relationship isnt fair, I would tell and discuss and fix. I would still be fair.

Chances can only be given so many before it becomes as thin as paper..

when love comes to you is when you have fallen out of love, and giving up.

not when you know there is love and nothing is being done.

because anything that becomes stagnant can be dangerous because complacency will build fast..